There’s a lot to be said about not taking anything personally, in the way that most of us are unfortunately trained to do these days. Therein lies the difficulty with people just being easy about saying what they want to say, without worrying about such things as tact and consideration, because those two aspects of our culture are quite relative, and only come into the field of view if you’ve also learned various versions of being “polite” and “politically correct”, etc. The language is already limited enough, so having to add filters in, based on what you presume someone else may or may not feel or react to immediately limits the amount you’re able to express yourself, truly, and truthfully.

If we all, however, learn to develop and expand our inherent abilities on an intuitive level, then there’d be no need for such filters based on words and language, because we’d just sense and feel it, and it’d be a natural extension and improvement in how we communicate. Unfortunately, much of the mainstream, as far as public education and understanding goes, has dumbed down and severely inhibited our truer, deeper interconnectivity, and thus put heavy dampers on how we talk to each other – both in close circumstances, and to complete “strangers”…

I think women usually have an advantage to gage someone’s reaction to their words.. people are largely predictable that way.

Truth is the most important thing to me.. but I think kindness and consideration runs alongside truth very closely

Its just basic human social skills. you can still speak your truth, but just means thinking a little longer on how you present it.. makes a huge big difference to the listeners turning away or wanting to know more.

my pov…

interesting post though Trance.. sounds very *you*

In the context of the quote above, basically it’s my understanding and experience combining the attitude one primarily adopts, with the physical (and physiological), and metaphysical effects on both our personal, and interpersonal energy, and vibration. The greater context of the quote is an interpretation of energy field theory, and the cumulative effect of certain attitudes, resulting in the greater cause/effect across the planet.

And so, an attitude is energy. Thoughts, are energy. Energy can harm, or heal. Depress, or uplift.

http://www.brain-gain.net/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=134%3Aparadigms-of-attitude-theory&catid=75%3Acat-attitudes&Itemid=112&lang=en

I was thinking on a post about it, and chatting with the Butterfly today confirmed the need for it.

I think that many of us feel the low-grade vibrations, not only in the world, but in our own lives. I know I do, so that’s where the work begins.

I’m hoping they’re honest…